More than any prior generation, Generation Z seems to embrace sex positivity — that is, embracing sexual variety and various relationship forms. This includes BDSM, casual sex, and polyamory (or…
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It’s not uncommon in long-term relationships for one person to want to work on their relationship, while the other one doesn’t. And at time stamps like the new year and…
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For awhile, research studies have found that individuals in a relationship who are kinder and more forgiving to themselves are happier and more satisfied in their relationships. But does that…
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Why does desire often fade in long-term relationships? What gets in the way of feeling sexual desire towards your partner in a long-term relationship or marriage (even when you still…
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“Q: What needs to change in our larger culture to end the normalization of sexual violence? A: We live in a culture of coercion. In so many aspects of life,…
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I’ve long wished we had better terminology than “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” for adults who are not married but are in serious long-term relationships. So a male friend and I recently…
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If you want to feel more desire and arousal, but aren’t sure how to “prime your own pump,” so to speak, audio erotica apps are truly helpful. These apps have…
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Sexting refers to sexual messages over text. They may be implicit or explicit, written or photographs. They may be flirtatious and edgy or direct and sexual/erotic. They are intended as…
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I’m in a Zoom event, listening to a man in his mid-40s share a personal story and a recent struggle in his family. And 45 seconds later, I’m not listening…
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“You are the love of my life.” “I can’t take this anymore.” These are not uncommon statements within one and the same relationship. We may find certain aspects of our…
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